Friday, February 22, 2008

幸福

Received this email from a friend of mine, after reading it makes me kinda wonder what is love? It is just that simple… unconditional and forever love.. even you no longer there the love will always be there. so be always thankful to person who love you, be it your family or lovers... see and feel with your heart. usually great love are not being expressed thru the mouth.

I would like to take this chance to seek apologies of those people that I’ve hurt in the pass, who once care about me. Sorry... Hope it is not too late, little by little I learnt to put down grudges and wish you happy.

Thank you…..

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她比他小
20岁,嫁给他的时候,家乡的人都以为她傍上大款。只有她知道,他一个什么样的男人。他只是一个普通的男人,黑,丑,一口黄牙。媒人当初可没这么说,只说是个过日子的男人,就因为家里穷给耽搁了,一直没找上媳妇。那阵子,没找上媳妇的都去山区找,有四川的、山西的、湖南的花几千元就可以找来。那男人也托人带一个回来,这就是她,一个死了丈夫的女人。媒人说男人富着呢,靠手艺吃饭。女人因为急于逃离那个家庭,问都没问男人会什么手艺就嫁过来了。过来后才知道,他的手艺就是在外面风吹雨淋地修鞋,再加上男人长得丑陋,让她有种上当的感觉。回去,已无退路,婆家人叫她丧门星,说是她克死了丈夫。
  
再婚后,男人很宠她,隔三岔五给她买些小玩意来,一盒粉饼,一支口红,几串荔枝……她长到
30岁,从来没有用过口红,更不用说吃荔枝了,很快,她就觉得自己比杨贵妃还要幸福,吃荔枝的时候,男人不吃,只是傻傻地看着她吃。

她说∶"你也吃。"

他说∶"我不爱吃它,看着你吃我就高兴。"

后来,她偶然上街,随口问了一下荔枝的价格,吓一跳,竟然要
201斤。她的眼睛一下湿润了,他怎么可能不爱吃荔枝?他是舍不得吃呀。

  她更加疼他,早晨早早起来给他做饭,晚上做好热乎乎的饭菜等他回来;冬天的时候,男人在街上修鞋,一天下来,冻得全身冰冷,女人就把男人的脚放到自己怀里暖着。男人也很知足,说是上辈子修来的福才会娶到她,他为什么岁还没有结婚,就为等她呗。说得女人心花怒放。

  女人见男人每天那么累很心疼,她说∶"给我买台机器吧,我和你一块修鞋去。" 男人不答应,说他挣的钱足够养活她,可女人认真了,偏要去。于是街上总能看到一对老夫少妻在修鞋,两个人紧挨着,有鞋修的时候,两个人就一起动手,空闲时,就有说有笑地聊着。冬天刮大风,女人的手都冻红了,耳朵也冻得青一块紫一块,这时,男人买来一块烤红薯,红薯散发着诱人的香味。男人剥开,用嘴吹着,却不吃,他把红薯放到女人嘴边,女人幸福地咬一口,又吹一吹,让男人吃。他们一人一口地吃着,好象享受一顿美食,好象吃着爱情的圣餐。

  
有一天,男人对女人说∶"总有一天,我会走在你前面。"

女人就哭了,说∶"
那我和你一起去。"
  
男人说∶
"不行!"

然后男人又说∶
"我们现在的钱还不是很多,再挣几年,给你养老应该没问题。还有,我给你在地里种了500棵树,等有一天我去了,你也不能动了,那500棵树也长大了,我相信它们能够养活你。"
  女人扑到男人怀里哭了。
500棵树,那只是500棵树吗?这一辈子从没有人替她这样想过,可这个男人甚至为她想到老年,她觉得这辈子真是值了。现在城里人兴什么夫妻树、爱情树,而她的男人给她种的树要比那些树珍贵一万倍,那是一片夫妻同心树。


"收到了这封信,是因为有人在默默的祝福你,因为你也爱你身边的一些人"。带着爱的,一切将如愿以偿。

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Another year another debt for myself

again dono it is about the 虚誉心 or what... seems like it has been like a cancer that always hunt me each year after my monthly installment plan ended. last year i started with my bike... now this year.. new debt... namo namo...

please spare me from all the lust and desire.. hm.. what should i get for myself next year??? heheheheehheeh

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

WTF...



What the "FAT CHOY"~!!!!! curses to the driver who did that to my car~! i was having my a tea at the local KOCA Kopitiam and while on my way back to get the car... WTF~! i tot why there's a car hang ontop of the Longkang and stay on top on a shining gold car???? and the gold car look so like my car and yes.. WTF that's my freaking car~!!! i was surprisingly calm and feel nothing at all as if the car doesn't belong to me.

according to the chu char uncle near where i park my car who witness the accident said that that fella try to park and accidentally hit the oil pedal instead of brake~!!!!

too bad i didn't snap a photo of the car hanging on my car but here's roughly where it happens


on the left is the inner road and on the right is the outer road which where i park. i am not the only person who are victims in the accident, there's another kelisa that park in the inner road being bang on the back wheel and damaged the shaft.. poor guy kelisa owner who need to get all his document from Johor.



From the photo you can still see the marks the car left on the concrete platform that cover the longkang... and just for your information, the damage for the whole accident.




Two Cars involved
1 MPSP Flower Pot
dozen of scratches
and plenty of headaches for the people involved in the accidents~!!!!!


okay here's what i need to do
1. Find all the documents i need for claimage
2. Contact Teong Chai Spray Painting Shop for the arrangement
3. set time for adjuster

in the mean time i will be on my bike again~!!! Good Lucks~!

"FAT CHOY" >:(


here's the culprit car.. i was told that the person who claim to be the owner wasn't the owner~!!!!!!


Saturday, February 9, 2008

Preparation for CNY

Yet another CNY? What will you be doing for preparation? well just started Car Detailing Biz lately with my buddy CH. has been running promotion for CNY since New Year till now. It's a part time basis (which we usually schedule with the customer on working on it over the weekend) as a hobby; each car will take up to at least 6 hours from internal cleaning until external. Although it’s a bit tiring but we are both happy with the happy customer, specially when customer come and collect the car. we always told them we’ve swithched thier number plate to a new car :D

Its odd though this year I didn't help out at home for cleaning the badminton court and painting the badminton court(the green thing on the floor, yes we paint them using rubber based paint). But it is good that seeing my sisters and brother come and helps out.

Better get more cash in this year as there will be lots of travelling plan coming up... sneak peak.. :D

1. Ipoh Makan Trip 2008 - March
2. The trip to councore Mt. Kinabalu - May 8th - 13th
3. Malaysian Salsa Festival, Pulai Johor. - June 26th - 29th
4. Singapore - Xmas(To be due)

GDI(god damn it) i need to start training my stamina before conquering the KK :P and also some practice incase my teacher throw me in for the performance during the salsa festival... (Sweat) >:P but i have confidence with myself... really looking forward to join the festival specially with all the internation dance instructor workshop.. :D hopefully i get up to speed...

lastly... not to mention... Happy Chinese New year, may all best come to each and every one of you. Money come and those decided to tie to knot please do so don't just kept on saying Correct Correct Correct.. but action counts(don't let your partner wait for you.. else he/she will cabut). As your friend me still printing money and waiting to dry, so please inform me in advance else still i will be able to pao ang pow for your wed.. but a red paper inside instead :P(joking, you know me well enough..)

Gong Xi Fa Chai.. namo namo namo namo